And why you should stop asking that. I’m transgender. I’ve got a confused/disorganised attachment style, which tells you a lot if you’re into that stuff, and I was groomed and kept as a much older man’s toy for a bit over five years in my late teens. The second someone learns this about me, the… View more
My sister and I buy our card wallets and other pouches from That’s Ferntastic, a one-person small business that closed a few years ago. I could rave about Fern, her products, and her amazing customer service for hours, but that’s actually not what I came here to talk about. For the last couple of years,… View more
Marriage is weird. Even though we know humans grow and change, there’s still this idea that we’re freezing our relationships in time. We sign a contract wherein some clauses are explicit and some are implied. We know our partners – and if change happens, which it inevitably will, we become suspicious. Honestly, the suspicion makes… View more
The other day a mate said he saw me in a video and didn’t recognise me right away. He thought “Who’s this guy?” and then realised that my T is doing its work. Hearing that felt amazing, but I kept it to myself. The changes in my body fascinate me. Sometimes they scare me. I… View more
