It’s age-old advice, right? Just be yourself and your people will find you. Don’t pretend to be someone else, it’s not sustainable and your friends will fall in love with someone who doesn’t exist. Don’t worry about labels, just be yourself. Never mind that sometimes labels help people find themselves. But, how does this advice… View more
In honour of Non-Binary Awareness Week, here are the most common questions I’ve been asked this year. The words non-binary and enby/enbies are used interchangeably in this post and simply mean a person who belongs to a gender outside of the binary options of man or woman. Is it possible for non-binary people to transition?… View more
Ah, periods. Everyone wants a way to make themselves okay with this process and to take power back from the patriarchy telling us our bodies are disgusting, but personally, none of the rituals I’ve read have come close to empowering me. Frankly, when I’m bleeding out, my energy is at it’s absolute lowest. I don’t… View more
I apologise in advance if the quality of the writing in this post, or in all my future posts, is lower than usual. Here’s the thing, my fear of people coming after me because I’ve expressed my ideas poorly or misspoken, and my worry that people will see errors in my grammar and then assume… View more
I’ve recently come out as non-binary (or enby, I like both terms) and it should be a cause for celebration. Transitioning, or as I like to say, “making my packaging match the product inside,” ought to be joyful. And it is – until others get involved. Don’t get me wrong, I want them involved. I want… View more
